Don’t Wait Until It’s Too Late—Love Fiercely While You Can

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“Dr. Cheryl, my marriage is so boring—HELP!”

“How can I bring back the magic and spark to my relationship?”

“Why was my partner so much more attractive when we were first dating?”

Don’t wait for a wake up call. Don’t wait for an affair. Don’t wait until your husband gets a diagnosis that scares the hell out of you—and don’t wait for a sudden death. Don’t wait until it’s too late to show up and love the one you love.

On this episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I’m teaching you all about Marriage Incorporated and how you can best avoid complacency and boredom in your relationship… before it’s too late.

You want to learn how to have a much better, stronger relationship.  Today, we’re talking about cultivating more love, more interest, more kindness, more peacefulness, and how to really be more like we were when we were falling in love.

In This Episode, You Will Learn:

If you are in Marriage Incorporated, you may be having a really nice life, but you’re roommates, not partners (06:30)

You were a lot nicer to your partner when you were dating (16:20)

If you lose your partner suddenly, you’ll quickly realize that, no matter how fraught the relationship has been, you’ll have regrets if you haven’t loved well (17:41)

All too often in this short, wonderful, and precious life, we run out of time (23:06)

Your weekly LoveByte (32:27)

Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource!

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DR. CHERYL FRASER | Psychologist, Sex Therapist, and author of Buddha’s Bedroom | Creator of Become Passion – Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime – An online program for Couples