BRING BACK THE THRILL: Free Passion Masterclass, October 20th to 24th 2026 (Only 1 Class Left!)
👉 Sign up for Dr. Cheryl’s Free Passion Masterclass HERE
Does your relationship feel more like roommates running a business? Do you have nasty arguments that never seem resolved? Is your sexual life slowing down, or stopping altogether? Sign up now for one of Dr. Cheryl Fraser’s four free online Couples workshops and learn the three keys to lasting love and passion.
âś… Discover the Passion Triangle model
âś… Learn how to make your relationship feel new again with science based tools that work
âś… Free workbook included, plus a confidential live Q&A
👉 Sign up for Dr. Cheryl’s Free Passion Masterclass HERE
“How do I make sex a priority in a long-term relationship?”
“How do you make time for sex when you’re busy and tired?”
“Why does my marriage feel like a business partnership?”
When was the last time your relationship came before the to-do list? In this episode of Sex, Love & Elephants, Dr. Cheryl makes the case for a simple, slightly cheeky rule: make love before dinner. Put another way, treat your love life like a hobby. You choose it, you make time for it, and you want to get better at it.
Drawing on 30 years of work with couples, Cheryl names the signs she sees again and again. People wake up lonely next to a snoring spouse. Small arguments turn into flooded fights where every old wound gets thrown in. Couples avoid the big three topics (kids, money, and sex), and 30 to 40% of long-term couples rarely or never make love. She explains how couples slide into “Marriage Incorporated,” why wanting more from a long-term relationship is reasonable, and the difference between reasons and excuses. She also describes a real Sunday with her husband during the busiest three weeks of her year: tea on the deck, a sexy shower at 10 a.m., and a dog walk past a hundred sea lions. This episode is a sneak peek at Cheryl’s free live Passion Masterclass, and a nudge to stop waiting for passion and start building it.
In This Episode, You’ll Learn:
(00:00) Make love before dinner, hobby loving, and waking up lonely
(03:27) Contempt, threats to leave, avoiding conflict, and forgotten birthdays
(06:42) A Sunday off, mismatched desire, Cheryl’s story, and reasons vs. excuses
(12:20) Why wanting more is reasonable, and Marriage Incorporated
(15:07) Boredom, temptation, and making love before dinner at Cheryl’s house
(17:36) Passion Triangle, Become Passion, and today’s Love Bite
Want to learn more about Buddhism and relationships? Cheryl’s book Buddha’s Bedroom is a great resource!
Are you and your sweetheart finally ready to join my Become Passion program? The doors open October 2026! click HERE to join the wait list!Â
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